Are sexual fantasies a perversion?

Question

How do you know when fantasies turn into perversions and it's time to stop? What is unacceptable to you in bed?

Answer 1

This is the kind of question you should ask your partner. The norm is conditional. It is set by each couple in their bedroom. The main thing is that both of them should be comfortable and such a rough intimate life should not cause discomfort to others. And behind a closed door people have the right to try anything they want. It's important just to leave it at home and not to spread it to others.

Answer 2

I can completely agree with the previous comment. Norms are up to you and your partner to determine. What is acceptable to some may be perverse to others. We are quite relaxed in our bedroom, but we don't bring our experiments to public discussion. Variety is always a good thing. We recently bought a leg speader bar , it is probably the craziest toy we have. But some might call it kinky. It's just that everyone's boundaries are different...